Friday, 18 November 2011

Naqib's World.: His Inner Circle

Ahmad Naqib is  lying prone but he moves backward

Naqib now nearing eight months and has become more stronger as day gone by. He is now starting to lie on prone and moves backward. His hands are strong enough and able to support his body and his face up. 

Each morning I will bring him down to the garden and put him in the stroller . The first time I put him in the stroller he cried and stretched both his hands up appealing me to cuddle him up. But now no more, not any more instead he starts crying if I try not to entertain him putting him in the stroller and start pushing. Anyhow it only lasts not more than three rounds of pushing around the garden approximately less than ten minutes because he likes  'varieties' such as taking him out of the stroller after one round and back in the stroller again and so on . Or else he becomes bored and starts crying.

There are five of us in the house. So Naqib only 'recognises' five of us. We are his inner circle. Other than that no body can get nearer to him to say hello or try to offer smiles because all the non-five are considered strangers. He starts crying. Sometimes we all feel embarrass and sorry. But that's it: Naqib's world. It does not mean that we never bring him out and meet with other peoples. In fact any way we go he has to be with us because we do not have any body to look after him. For example when we go for shopping, we will bring Naqib along.

Naqib also does not like loud sounds. We talk to him with soft tone and affectionately . Never raise your voice in his presence such as laughing loudly when you are tickled by funny actions on tv. If you do it you will never be accepted by him as his friend. So be careful.

But Naqib is a very friendly boy if you know how to handle him. It takes some time though. Need an extra patience and don't give up at your first trial. Try again and again. I promise and guarantee you, you will be another inner circle  of him. To put it simply , Naqib is a boy who likes to be cuddled , affectionately hugged and softly-stroked his body. He loves those beautiful actions. 



       



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